trashhologram

trashhologram

⚰ Baby, let me decompose ⚰
Dec 15, 2023
325
It's honestly mentally draining to be a sex worker online sometimes. Many men seem to think that I'm not a human, but only a "cum bucket", "a disgusting whore" or "worthless". Just because of what I do for a living!

Yeah, I've been a hoe for a long time but I don't remember the part where I signed away my right to exist as a human. My opinions are shit because I'm not a person, I'm just a whore. If I got sexually abused it's obviously my fault, I should have thought of that before becoming a hoe.

These people don't and won't treat me as a human because of my job, which is decriminalised where I live. These "men" won't respect me because I'm a sex worker. It's so fucking annoying and even hurtful. Sex workers have feelings too. Sex workers are people.
 
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NearlyIrrelevantCake

NearlyIrrelevantCake

The Cake Is A Lie
Aug 12, 2021
1,335
I'm sorry you're having to deal with dickheads.

I did FSSW for several years while I was applying/re-applying/appealing for disability. I couldn't afford both food and rent on a welfare income while waiting to get approved for disability. So I started selling myself for money, it's all I could think to do. I physically and mentally couldn't hold down a ~normie~ job [hence me trying to get on disability...] but I could suck cock and get fucked just fine.

This was back when CraigsList still had a personals section, I would just throw an ad up there a few times a month. I did as few dates as possible while still surviving, usually 1-3/month depending on which service guys were paying for.

Nowadays, I post nudes and fuck around on Reddit all for free. I definitely get some fucknuggets in my DMs and comments, can't imagine how much worse it is for sex workers. I don't have the energy to monetize my fat ass, but more power to the people who do online sex work.

Hit me up any time to chat or vent, OP.
 
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trashhologram

trashhologram

⚰ Baby, let me decompose ⚰
Dec 15, 2023
325
I'm sorry you're having to deal with dickheads.

I did FSSW for several years while I was applying/re-applying/appealing for disability. I couldn't afford both food and rent on a welfare income while waiting to get approved for disability. So I started selling myself for money, it's all I could think to do. I physically and mentally couldn't hold down a ~normie~ job [hence me trying to get on disability...] but I could suck cock and get fucked just fine.

This was back when CraigsList still had a personals section, I would just throw an ad up there a few times a month. I did as few dates as possible while still surviving, usually 1-3/month depending on which service guys were paying for.

Nowadays, I post nudes and fuck around on Reddit all for free. I definitely get some fucknuggets in my DMs and comments, can't imagine how much worse it is for sex workers. I don't have the energy to monetize my fat ass, but more power to the people who do online sex work.

Hit me up any time to chat or vent, OP.
Thanks 🩷 I do only FSSW since I found online SW to be very time consuming and stressful. I use anonymous accounts on social media like Reddit and it annoys me a lot when I'm sharing my opinion on something that has nothing to do with my job and then some guy lurks through my profile and the arguments start to be "well you're a whore so you're wrong". Ugh.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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I'm so sorry you experience this. Do you ever wonder at the psychology behind it? Like- I imagine the guys insulting you use sex workers themselves. Do you think it's the need in themselves they actually hate? Why else insult the person who's catering to your needs?!! It's weird.

That's not to try and excuse them by the way. They sound pretty vile for treating anyone like that. Does it taint your opinion of all men may I ask? Are some guys that you work with actually nice?