For me, I can't stand this pain, where Bipolar and BPD has led me over the last two years...in to very dark places, where I ended up giving up my career due to stressful work environment (should have just looked for a new company), donating a kidney to a stranger, spending all my inheritance, then losing my family (this again was my own doing, my hubby is undiagnosed asperges..:and for many years I felt unloved and bullied). I totally lost the plot last Summer and did some unspeakable things.
My hubby and children are speaking to me and sometimes (when my step daughter isn't there), I can stay in the former marital home. My step daughter is also suffering from mental illness and is struggling with her sexuality.
I have no job, no money, in thousands of pounds in debt, I am more or less squatting in a house I used to rent out, which I have to sell to pay off debts and I won't be able to pay the tax man in January.
i have tried to CTB many times. I've tried partial and one time almost full suspension, but SI kicks in.
Despite knowing drugs won't work, I have OD'd on promethazine (made me delusional), promethazine and amitriptylene (delusional and then passed out, cousin called an ambulance and woup in A&E), Nytol with paracetamol and ibruprofen (just made me dizzy and sick), bleach (hospital), paracetamol again (hospital as crisis team called an ambulance), isopropyl alcohol (hospital as hubby called an ambulance).
i have been admitted to three different psychiatric wards in last 18 months
i was o l'y diagnosed in January with Bipolar and BPD. Looking back I've had these conditions all my life (was groomed and sexually abused my neighbour between 13-14 years old)...but was able to tune my life around several times...get a career, get married, have children.
Work, family, gym gave my life purpose and a routine.
I am now full of guilt for all the horrible things I did whilst manic, I am depressed, I am scared
I can't take the pain anymore, but then I think about what suicide would do to my children and I can't go through with it. I think my illness has caused me to be selfish enough.
Anyone else with Bipolar and/ or BPD which has destroyed everything?