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Smilla
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- Apr 30, 2018
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Am curious if some of you grew up in households where the following was of utmost importance:
1). How you look
2). How you performed— school etc
3). How popular you were (or weren't).
I grew up feeling like crap because I didn't meet the standards set forth by my family.
Even as a grown up my Aunt would ask me "what kind of car are you driving?" when I saw her at family gatherings—first question she asked me. Not "are you happy?" Or "how are you doing?"
Can anyone relate?
1). How you look
2). How you performed— school etc
3). How popular you were (or weren't).
I grew up feeling like crap because I didn't meet the standards set forth by my family.
Even as a grown up my Aunt would ask me "what kind of car are you driving?" when I saw her at family gatherings—first question she asked me. Not "are you happy?" Or "how are you doing?"
Can anyone relate?