Marktheghost
Paragon
- Feb 20, 2020
- 911
Why is society so obsessed with following their social norms, even when their social norms are causing unnecessary harm? I met a student nurse last year who I got on well with. I asked at the hospital about who had got contact details for the student nurses, intending to ask them to ask for the student nurse's permission to give me her e-mail address. I just got fobbed off with excuses or whatever and nobody would even tell me that.
So I asked my GP in the end. She says she can't help me because you can't make friends with a student nurse and can't make friends with someone younger than you; you've got to fit in with what's considered normal.
I'm suicidally lonely, the student nurse is training for a job that's all about helping people, but we're not allowed to even contact each other by e-mail, because fitting in with what's normal and following social norms is more important than making people's lives bearable; so I've got to miss out on what could be a great friendship just for the sake of society's social norms!
So I asked my GP in the end. She says she can't help me because you can't make friends with a student nurse and can't make friends with someone younger than you; you've got to fit in with what's considered normal.
I'm suicidally lonely, the student nurse is training for a job that's all about helping people, but we're not allowed to even contact each other by e-mail, because fitting in with what's normal and following social norms is more important than making people's lives bearable; so I've got to miss out on what could be a great friendship just for the sake of society's social norms!