ctoan
Arcanist
- Sep 30, 2018
- 437
i would love to apologize to my ex but i just cant do it
proud, feelings of guilt and anixiety are just strong
proud, feelings of guilt and anixiety are just strong
stellabelle
ethereal
- Dec 14, 2018
- 3,918
Same. I have apologized. I never really saw how bad things could get until after the fact. I want to crawl under a rock and die.
I'll likely say I'm sorry for everything and goodbye when I ctb.
Lots of people do nasty stuff constantly then offer a flip "oooh I'm sorry" - and you know they don't mean it and couldn't give a toss. It takes guts to really think about something you've done, take responsibility for it and apologise, genuinely, for your part in it. But I also think an apology has to go hand in hand with a change in behaviour - or at least a plan to. No point saying you're sorry and doing the same old stuff. In my opinion that means you're not sorry.
