Anyone here thought they would be alone forever and found love?

[Jack4230]

I'd love to hear some stories.

 

[LunarPyotr]

Well, after many unfortunate events, I basically gave up on searching for someone. I personally had a rather oldschool way of finding someone.
I personally have a very negative opinion about dating apps such as Tinder.
And ever since I stopped dating, I basically also let myself go..
Like I showered sometimes two times per week, had mostly the same clothes on and my "bad thoughts" were really bad.

To make the story short,
when I got transported back to Germany, I was sent to psych ward and as ironically as it sounds, I meet there someone and now we're not only together but also live together.

To be fair, she's also not fully alright (Is very clingy, FaceTime's me every time I have my 30min break, etc.) but I don't mind that. At least it's nice to come back home after work and spend the rest of the evening with someone.
This really keeps me going and for over two weeks I didn't had any "bad thoughts" : P

 

[timf]

I didn't get married until I was 43. I am glad I waited.

 

[tiredplant777]

I'd love to hear some stories too. I struggle so much with being single and the isolation.

 

[whatevs]

I didn't get married until I was 43. I am glad I waited.

Shit that's a long wait still.

 

[Marktheghost]

No, I thought that with my wonderful personality I should find it easy to find love, and yet I'm being alone for ever! :-(

 

[Ashu]

Yeah, and then I reacted to it in the only way my sick stupid soul could understand: I smashed it to pieces, shat all over it, and wrecked both our lives.

 

[Steve Vermont]

Me! Then I lost it. Then I found it again. And now it appears that I am losing it again.

 

[S like suicide]

Unbelivably me...this love saved me and it was very deep but seems it is turning in a sick love that does more damage than good...love should never hurt and it tortures me that i could be the cause of so much pain...even if it's the hardest thing let someone that you love go...he will be better and more safe without me

 

[Going Out Soon]

Yeah, and then I reacted to it in the only way my sick stupid soul could understand: I smashed it to pieces, shat all over it, and wrecked both our lives.

I can relate. Not only do you have to deal with the crippling loneliness, but the guilt from destroying something so precious as well!

 

[eve2004]

The opposite. I found love. He died. I'm going to be alone until I die.