anyone have experience with escorts (prostitutes)?

[snowman626]

i am already 33 and never had a girlfriend so i want to get an escort. but i don't know how to communicate to her what i want, i am aware you cant say you want sex because they will be afraid you are police. so what do i say? what do people usually say?

if you go to escorts often can you tell me how the whole process usually goes down?

 

[End.of.the.line]

I've been with a few (like 5 or 6). It was okay but wasnt really my thing. I found most of them online on adultwork. But tbh I can't remember what I said to them. I know a lot girls that refer to it as "doing business" or "going on a date". You could maybe just ask "are you business?"

Prostitute are just normal people with a different occupation. Losing your virginity to a prostitute is okay but try not to over think it.

Personally I think sex can be very overrated especially if you haven't done it before. Anyway good luck

 

[EphemeralDream]

I think you can find dedicated sites for specific escorts. But maybe expensive? You can tell them the situation and how you want things to happen, and then agree with set price. Probably easiest because many transactions are online. Where are you from snowman?

 

[snowman626]

I think you can find dedicated sites for specific escorts. But maybe expensive? You can tell them the situation and how you want things to happen, and then agree with set price. Probably easiest because many transactions are online. Where are you from snowman?

the problem is i don't know how to tell them how i want things to happen. if i want sex do i just say it or is there a code word? also what about other things like feeling her breasts, kissing her legs, do i have to explain everything?

 

[Roberto]

2 or 3 but I was so nervous and I felt so artificial, like a lie that I couldn't finish. My thoughts were that she doesn't want to be with me and I couldn't. I realized that I need to love the person to make sex with her.

 

[Marawa]

Look for escorts that advertise GFE (girlfriend experience). These escorts are not just selling sex but ab emotional connection as well. They often deal with virgins & lonely people. A good one will make you comfortable & happy.
And after a certain point sex really is overrated.

 

[Roberto]

Look for escorts that advertise GFE (girlfriend experience). These escorts are not just selling sex but ab emotional connection as well. They often deal with virgins & lonely people. A good one will make you comfortable & happy.
And after a certain point sex really is overrated.

I currently don't care much about sex. I don't have money also. I'm ok. But thanks about your suggestion. I didn't know existed, if it were to be like friends, I could accept it. For me make love is something very special and I feel a very deep connection to the other person. Is about to give yourself. :-)

 

[Marawa]

I currently don't care much about sex. I don't have money also. I'm ok. But thanks about your suggestion. I didn't know existed, if it were to be like friends, I could accept it. For me make love is something very special and I feel a very deep connection to the other person. Is about to give yourself. :-)

Understood. If you ever do get money & want to do it this way, a GOOD agency/provider would be elated to spend some sessions with you getting dinner, or playing a board game at your home- whatever makes you comfortable- honestly they are looking to make a connection (not just the money). & the best ones aren't even going to quote prices ala carte anyway....

 

[406metallicblue]

You have escorts and then you have massage. It might not be sex either way but it will be an intimate experience, perhaps leading to sex or not. I recommend you try either of these and see where it leads. The escort/masseuse will be able to tell quite rapidly where you are coming from and what it is you need.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

i am already 33 and never had a girlfriend so i want to get an escort. but i don't know how to communicate to her what i want, i am aware you cant say you want sex because they will be afraid you are police. so what do i say? what do people usually say?

if you go to escorts often can you tell me how the whole process usually goes down?

Where do you live? In some countries there are legal brothels, it's a good solution.

 

[Soon4me]

I don't want a female,i'm guessing that there are male escorts no?

 

[Kikoo Loool]

I don't want a female,i'm guessing that there are male escorts no?

Of course. And it is much more easier to find free (non venal) male than female when you want to have a quick fuck with a stranger.

if you go to escorts often can you tell me how the whole process usually goes down?

I once was in Belgium, were escort bars are legal. If you can go there, I'll explain you how it works. I hade a woderful experience there

 

[Soon4me]

Of course. And it is much more easier to find free (non venal) male than female when you want to have a quick fuck with a stranger.

Hi Kikoo Loool!
Thanks! Might be for others but not for me i can't have sex,(P.I.V.) and guys have no interest in me when they hear that.
and fair enough i don't blame them i suppose.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

Hi Kikoo Loool!
Thanks! Might be for others but not for me i can't have sex,(P.I.V.) and guys have no interest in me when they hear that.
and fair enough i don't blame them i suppose.

What does P.I.V. mean?
Frankly, you can found males quite easily, I manage to get sucked by a man in the hour when I want to.

 

[Soon4me]

What does P.I.V. mean?
Frankly, you can found males quite easily, I manage to get sucked by a man in the hour when I want to.

It means if the 2 of us hooked up there would be no sex
how can i put this
You are a plug! I am a socket! Nevermind 3 at same time like the link,i can't even manage one

Urban Dictionary: Plug Socket

The sexual act of penetrating a woman's vagina with three penises at the same time.

www.urbandictionary.com

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

 

[Psilo]

This is SUCH an interesting thread!!

xD

 

[Amber1974]

It means if the 2 of us hooked up there would be no sex
how can i put this
You are a plug! I am a socket! Nevermind 3 at same time like the link,i can't even manage one

Urban Dictionary: Plug Socket

The sexual act of penetrating a woman's vagina with three penises at the same time.

www.urbandictionary.com

Wtf never heard of this good luck getting 3 to fit

 

[Soon4me]

Wtf never heard of this good luck getting 3 to fit

LOL i don't want 3,i would be happy if one fitted!

 

[snowman626]

Where do you live? In some countries there are legal brothels, it's a good solution.

Im in canada and there already are brothels here where i live legal or not. But im more interested in having the girl come to me because id be too nervous to walk into a joint with a group of hot girls standing there. (Brings back bad high school memories)

Ive been to a massage parloe before but she kept asking "what do you want?" And i didnt know how to reply, because if id said i wanted sex she would think im tge police and kick me out. I just said "i dont know, whatever" and she ended up giving me a bj which isnt really what i wanted. Afterwards she kept saying how im a "nice guy" over and over which i have come to realize its code word for "creepy" which is true but not something i know how not to be.

I just want cuddle, kissing, sucking boobs, licking and sucking her beautiful body, and the grand finale of sex. Do i just say that outright? Or is there supposed to be a more classy way to say it? Im socially retarded and dont know how to communicate with people so i dont know anything

 

[Marawa]

Im in canada and there already are brothels here where i live legal or not. But im more interested in having the girl come to me because id be too nervous to walk into a joint with a group of hot girls standing there. (Brings back bad high school memories)

Ive been to a massage parloe before but she kept asking "what do you want?" And i didnt know how to reply, because if id said i wanted sex she would think im tge police and kick me out. I just said "i dont know, whatever" and she ended up giving me a bj which isnt really what i wanted. Afterwards she kept saying how im a "nice guy" over and over which i have come to realize its code word for "creepy" which is true but not something i know how not to be.

I just want cuddle, kissing, sucking boobs, licking and sucking her beautiful body, and the grand finale of sex. Do i just say that outright? Or is there supposed to be a more classy way to say it? Im socially retarded and dont know how to communicate with people so i dont know anything

GFE girlfriend experience escorts are their none in Canada?

 

[Idorus]

She will probably erotically overpower you before you know it. They're very smart in getting it how they want it... and "starters" are the very best catch for them as you can easily direct them into your setting of choice. Next to that, they're cute ;)
Don't overthink it, cause things might turn out so differenty.

It feels a bit other-worldly not being allowed to say you want sex. Well I gues this is a matter of country difference.

 

[snowman626]

GFE girlfriend experience escorts are their none in Canada?

Yes thats what im planning to get

 

[agreement]

Yes thats what im planning to get

https://www.humpchies.com/

 

[Kikoo Loool]

I just want cuddle, kissing, sucking boobs, licking and sucking her beautiful body, and the grand finale of sex. Do i just say that outright? Or is there supposed to be a more classy way to say it? Im socially retarded and dont know how to communicate with people so i dont know anything

You can find such gfe (girlfriend experience) in some legal brothels, you may find some forums dedicated to escorts and eros centers to find a good place near to you.

 

[RememberWhatUCameFor]

where do you live?

 

[BlackDragonof1989]

Good luck awuhrr wags my tail warmly

 

[TAW122]

I'm 28 and I have never had a girlfriend and I'm a virgin. Personally, I am not seeking a relationship whether it is marriage or boy/girlfriend, but before I die, I'd like to at least experience the physical aspect of what 'sex' feels like. Therefore, yes, escorts and prostitutes would be the solution to my problem. The only things I need to make sure before I go that route is to make sure I don't get conned/scammed, or worse, end up in a sting and getting into legal troubles (fines, jail, prison, etc.). I have considered places where prostitution is legal such as brothels in Nevada, USA and also in Amsterdam, Netherlands; unless there are other places with it. Also, as far as civil issues, I am also trying to cover my bases there too so I don't get false accusations or smeared over some technicality or misunderstanding.

I'm rather socially inept myself too, so I don't know the code words or the right actions to take in order to get what I am looking for.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

You may also try Belgium, Germany, Switzerland and Spain.

 

[Idorus]

I have considered places where prostitution is legal such as brothels in Nevada, USA and also in Amsterdam, Netherlands; unless there are other places with it.

I had no idea my country was so progressive in this as well. If you ever need a free place to stay for some days, then you're welcome. I have an empty room left. You can even hire a girl in your room as well. I don't live in A'dam but it's legal in the entire country.