Anyone else too negative to ever be positive?

[V0latile]

I've gone through so much terrible shit that I'm past the point of being a positive person. That creates a huge problem. Women I like are initially attracted to me, but I'm so gloomy and miserable that they soon disappear. Therapy and meds don't cure childhood abuse and it's many subsequent problems.

 

[BPD_LE]

One psychologist used to call me 'Yeah But....' because I had a negative comment to everything he said.

 

[Flume]

One psychologist used to call me 'Yeah But....' because I had a negative comment to everything he said.

A big part of Suicide for me has been these he said/she said scenarios. The endless struggle to try and be understood.

 

[Mr2005]

I've told myself many a time positivity is delusion but I try to still have some for other peoples sake

 

[Lethe]

I don't consider myself negative, just a realist.

 

[Final Escape]

I've gone through so much terrible shit that I'm past the point of being a positive person. That creates a huge problem. Women I like are initially attracted to me, but I'm so gloomy and miserable that they soon disappear. Therapy and meds don't cure childhood abuse and it's many subsequent problems.

You really need to start watching Richard Grannon on YouTube, to understand how to heal. The thing is most therapists cannot help u and a lot of the work has to be done by u. You are suffering from complex ptsd as many of us on here are. Don't get discouraged if initially his stuff sounds complicated. It takes a little time to get an understanding for this stuff. You can do things to heal that are not near as hard as u think it's a matter of taking time like daily or most days of the week to do the work. One major thing that helped me that I learned from this guy is how to create positive affirmations to bypass inner critic. Then record into your fone and over time u listen to these often throughout the day and u begin to think much more helpful thoughts. Self hypnosis basically. The quality of our thoughts creates our reality so if your unconscious thoughts are very defeating u will be really depressed and negative.

 

[Plankter]

I don't consider myself negative, just a realist.

That's exactly my response to people pointing out my "negativity" too. Some just dont understand how delusional they are

 

[Crushed_Innocence]

Yup. Me. I just dont give a fuck anymore.

 

[StillWaiting]

Me.
I dont know how to be positive anymore.
Does being positive means being hopeful?

 

[Soulless_Angel]

when ever I have tried this positive thing so many harp on about, I am soon knocked back into being reminded that shit aint me, I am meant to be a grumpy old bag, No shame in it! None at all!

 

[TheQ22]

Grannon is a conman - oh the stories you can find about him.

Take a good look at his participation in that "I'm a hard scouse doorman and I beat the shit out of people" video he did or just search in google for "richard grannon conman" or look at a real life review of someone called "trauma survivor" in these YT comments who did his spartan life coaching and ended up suicidal: OR - see this guy's journey doing a glut of RG courses and tell me if he looks better or worse at the beginning or the end?: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChzuusa5DZM3sIxNoUPD-mA OR look up the book "I am Sovereign" - which really nails Grannon to a "t".

Be careful who you listen to and who you let inside your head.