Anyone else ruin their life?

[demuic]

Anyone else have many opportunities yet ruined their own life?

 

[L I F E T O L O S E]

not many, but yes ruined

 

[TripleA]

Yes you are not alone

 

[Churaak]

I did a lots of mistakes, but more things I have not done and should have.

 

[TheSoulless]

Oh yes

 

[Lordsudbury]

Oh as often as possible apparently

 

[Mr2005]

You're new I'll let you off. Yes! I've served a prison sentence for my own murder

 

[deadbeat]

I haven't had any opportunities, but yes I've ruined my life.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

yes mostly through things that i've done when drunk or high...

 

[KleinerWolf]

It was a shitty situation when I landed in my body.
Lol
That's what my brain tells me anyways,
Who knows if the concept of soul is real.

 

[itachi of death]

I've ruined every chance I've ever received in my life,girls work or misc thingsz with over thinking and being gullible to how wicked people are

 

[Futile]

Not really, the world never gave me a chance

 

[laura fines]

Anyone else have many opportunities yet ruined their own life?

--
When I was 20 I thought "when you are older you will regret staying like this
(cry, without leaving home, have some plans but reject them all because I felt sad ...)
to be honest, 20 years later ...
I know it was impossible to do it any other way,
I was sick and I am to this day. It is true that it is getting worse and worse, because it is no longer just depression and little desire to live, you are also older and fatter.
I couldn't have done it any other way: that's the conclusion

 

[MiseryLovesMyCompany]

Without a doubt, even now I am ruining my life. My past mistakes don't give me the time of day either.

 

[greebo6]

Anyone else have many opportunities yet ruined their own life?

I've had some but not taken any of them . All helped to put me where I am now sadly.

 

[Superdeterminist]

I only ever did what my thoughts/feelings compelled me to do in each moment. Some of the choices made have indeed yielded some very undesirable consequences. I'm not going to beat myself up about that though, suffering the effects is painful enough, why suffer guilt on top of that? I hate some of the choices that I have made, but there were legitimate reasons why they were made over the alternatives, at the time.

 

[Deleted member 94]

Yes but for some reason I don't regret some of my decisions which could be objectively observed by others as a bad call. I don't feel any guilt in relation to them.

 

[Good4Nothing]

Anyone else have many opportunities yet ruined their own life?

Me.
Many, many, many times.

 

[Ren Elsie Jewelria]

Life ruins our own life (Laplace's demon). What opportunities? I mean, it's been few hundreds of years since the philosophers, mathematicians and others figured it out. Schopenhauer, Laplace and others.

 

[Dead beat dad]

Anyone else have many opportunities yet ruined their own life?

Indded I have but I'm also making opportunities to ruin my life too - I'm hedging the odds at bookmaker of misery

 

[Deathbydemo]

Yes, I've made many mistakes in my lifetime. I choose not to dwell on it though. I know what I've done but, in the end, none of it truly matters.

 

[death137]

Yes I had. But I didn't want to but forced to do by social anxiety. I feel ashamed for wasting many times the money and efforts ppl put to help me. I don't tell them my feeling so they think I don't care but I do really care.

 

[woxihuanni]

Yes. I have a kind of stupidity that ruins everything, though I am also smart at a bunch of things. More importantly, I fucked up by expecting to be human though I was born a monkey. Ugly people like me need to kill themselves without bothering anyone and forcing them to overlook their genetic defects.

 

[Bauhaus]

One disastrous thing I did in 2012 has definitely set my demise in motion.

 

[Worthless_nobody]

Yes I 100% ruined my life... my abusive ex finished it off but I had potential and if I hadn't screwed up I never would have met him.

 

[JustKillBen22]

At every fucking turn, and the worst part was I knew what I was doing but am too lazy and garbage to change anything, so I just slowly watched everything I did fuck my entire life and kept myself sane by telling myself "it's fine I can just die" but now I don't even feel like I can do that. Not alone anyway.

 

[MrBigSad]

I am the definition of fucking things up. But you can still change the future. Even if no one else believes in you.

 

[VivaldiBR]

Yes. I ruined my life a lot. but external factors are holding back any chance of recovery. The pandemic, for example, was one of them. The government and its economic measures is another example as well. But I woke up to life too late.

 

[checkouttime]

oh yes. its kind of why i want to CTB now. done everything, had everything i wanted. not interested in trying to make things better just to self destruct all over again (it would definatly happen aswell)

 

[Wayfaerer]

It's not the number of mistakes I've made but rather the severity of just one, which I had made several years ago and under circumstances that were not my fault in any way. This universe is such an unjust place, it's sickening what people get away with doing their misdeeds yet I'm the one who must suffer while they not.

Determinism aught to give me solace as everything couldn't have happened differently but it only fuels my existential dread and the feeling of being a caged animal ruthlessly tormented for no reason.