Venting Anyone else feels left out?

[hopeless302]

I feel like I'm an afterthought most of the time. I was always the odd one out among my friends, my family. I'm always the last one picked to go to events and stuff, or often times, people would just go do stuff without inviting me. I've felt this way as a kid and it's the same through adulthood honestly.
Anyone else feels this way?

 

[lili]

pretty much all the time yeah can relate with this a lot

 

[lonelyguy]

yup, my entire life. you get to the point where you believe it's what you deserve and avoid those situations on purpose

 

[Someday_Somehow32]

Same, but I'm pretty use to it at this point

 

[letthisbeover]

Exactly my experience. I have tried being more social, change my interest and personality to fit in, but it's worthless

 

[jodes2]

I'm lucky I guess. I don't have any friends so can't comment on that but I have a small, close family really. It's helped. I'm sorry you feel like this, it must be heartbreaking

 

[Meaninglessness]

Time, long geographical distances and health problems have led loneliness for me. There will probably always be people who are left out because of overpopulation - the more people - the less value each individual gets.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

I definitely missed out on all the normal stuff.

 

[nochu]

yes it's always been like that for me

 

[Gray Wounds]

I was until i met my only friend and best friend.

 

[fettuccinenoodle]

Yes. Always trying to fit in. In high school i had a bunch of really crappy friends. I lied to myself for so long until I met someone who was actually my friend. And I cut all those people off and only hungout with him - then eventaully dated. But since then I don't try to fit in. Most people think I'm weird and I'm a ball of anxiety anyway. No don't think I like people anyway. So many fake people who just end up talking about you behind your back

 

[Silent.Tears]

Oh yeah, ofcourse. I was always left out, be it school projects, or casual hangouts etc. There are always invitations for family get togethers, festivals etc but I choose not to go. It doesn't matter if I'm there or not and honestly I'm happier when my relatives aren't around.

 

[Dead Ghost]

I've been feeling abandoned for a long time, especially by myself, and the indifference of others to my attitude (the people in my immediate environment) hurts me a little.

But of course, I never really needed them? In SaSu I have everything I need... I love you.

//

Jo fa temps que em sento abandonat sobretot per mi mateix i em fa una mica de mal la indiferència dels altres a la meva actitud (les persones que hi han en el meu entorn inmediat).

Però es clar, els he necessitat pas mai realment? A SaSu tinc tot el que necessito... us estimo.

 

[Need2BFree]

I feel like I'm an afterthought most of the time. I was always the odd one out among my friends, my family. I'm always the last one picked to go to events and stuff, or often times, people would just go do stuff without inviting me. I've felt this way as a kid and it's the same through adulthood honestly.
Anyone else feels this way?

I've felt that way as a kid and upto adulthood feeling left out. It hurts

 

[B4mbi]

Same here, I'm always the last to get picked for anything, I'm always the unwanted "extra" one. It would just be so much better if I wasn't here

 

[makethepainstop]

yes it's always been like that for me

Me too, me too. Been that way forever.

 

[bigtiredoflife]

Same here. I've watched friends come and go. Now I only have one friend, buts she's dating now so I can tell this the part where we start growing distant. At this point the only thing keeping me from ctb is my own cowardice

 

[Zegers]

Same. One of my bestf in hs wouldn't invite me to parties in his town or when he mingle with other ppl, i think he was ashamed of my disability. People are a downfall.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

My entire life. There are a few people I talk to but I ALWAYS have to reach out first.
Even work, others hang out ... I'm never asked. Not gonna lie, it hurts. Even if we don't have much in common, It would be nice to be asked. I guess I'm too nerdy.

 

[Insomniac]

I feel like I'm an afterthought most of the time. I was always the odd one out among my friends, my family. I'm always the last one picked to go to events and stuff, or often times, people would just go do stuff without inviting me. I've felt this way as a kid and it's the same through adulthood honestly.
Anyone else feels this way?

there's not a single feeling worse than this one.

 

[Aya&Dazy]

I was left out by my mother since I was a little kid as young as my brain can remember! Anyway, I already cut them off of my life. I knew that they both had a bad car accident couple years ago I didn't give a f*%$. Only time they will hear about me is when I am already dead.

With friends also, if I get the feeling of rejection, then I know when to disappear myself before they make me feel unwanted. It hurts when your close friend doesn't wanna be your bff anymore. This happened when I was 14. So This is why I became a loaner and so much happy this way.

 

[mateodolores]

Every day of my life since I could form memories (maybe even beforehand.) I guess it makes sense, though. I've always stuck out like a sore thumb because of my defects and illnesses. On top of that, I was forced into situations no one should ever be growing up, so the trauma has made it even more impossible to connect with others.

 

[Lonerzepam]

Yes

 

[hellispink]

even as a kid, i used to stay lonely in the corners everywhere id go. I just don't belong here.

 

[Un-]

Mhm. Never made friends. Every friend group I've been apart of was the work of a teacher forcing me. Even in high school, which was just 3 years ago, a teacher had to help me make friends. I don't even fit in this forum.

I'm a joke. A side character in my own life. And I think there's nothing wrong with deciding to take myself out.

 

[Ligottian]

I remember way back in my kindergarten and early grade school years there were neither popular kids nor outsiders. Maybe that was just my experience. But boy did things start to change!