Anyone else don't want thier parents or relatives to attend thier burial/funeral?

[Unknown21]

I hate my parents so much, they abused me and neglected me and caused me a lot of suffering in my life. I'll write in my will that i don't want any of them to be involved in my burial.
I need to express my resentment, anger and hatred towards them. I want them to know that I am never satisfied with them, especially my parents. They have committed crimes against me and my hatred for them is beyond description/ Indescribable.

Anyone else feel the same and can relate to this?

I don't feel guilty or evil for doing that because what they did to me is enough to deserve public execution. If I could take revenge, I would take the most severe revenge I could.

They will not even be guilt tripped bc they don't care about me.

 

[prettyclam]

That's relatable. I don't want a funeral, burial, or any ceremony either purely because of my parents. I'm hoping they just cremate me then pour my ashes into the sewers or something. I'd rather that happen than for them to fake grieve at my funeral. That's not enough to express my hatred though, so my method of revenge will be calling them out in my suicide note

 

[Forever Sleep]

If I manage to hang on until my Dad goes first, I intend to pre-pay for direct cremation. In my case, it's more that I don't want people to feel obliged to travel 100's of miles for my funeral. I kind of doubt anyone would anyway so, it would be such a waste.

 

[voir2]

I do not know if that's insane but I would like to disapear without anything more.
The nearest reasonable thing would be a cremation without ceremony.

 

[Unknown21]

I do not know if that's insane but I would like to disapear without anything more.
The nearest reasonable thing would be a cremation without ceremony.

Yes I agree, I wish I could be cremated too but that is not allowed where I live unfortunately.