Life is meaningless and cold and tedious and having someone by your side is the only thing that makes it all worth it. Anyone else feel this way? Like if they had a significant other they wouldn't want to die at all?
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Bitcoin (BTC):Ethereum (ETH):Monero (XMR):Nah. I used to think that way but life has plenty to offer even if you don't have a girlfriend. Good sleep, nice food, nice things to see. The world really is a beautiful place, even if you're alone, and there's always a chance you'll meet someone if you just focus on doing things you wanna do. Not sure how old you are but chances are you're in your twenties. When you're in your thirties you really start to realize this. I do agree that life is meaningless but you can make existence painless and even enjoyable even if you're alone. Learn mindfulness, it's a great tool.
Cyc
It's my fight and I choose to surrender.
- Jan 22, 2026
- 229
As someone who's been in relationships before, no. If anything I feel worse for wanting to die
Macedonian1987
Just a sad guy from Macedonia.
- Oct 22, 2025
- 829
Having no girlfriend is one the MANY reasons why i will ctb. Chronic pain and poor health is the No.1 reason why i will ctb.It's not my only reason but it's definitely a contributing factor. Having a gf wouldn't fix everything but it could've at least made me feel better.
darksouls
Visionary
- May 10, 2025
- 2,996
my ex-boyfriends treated me like trash,
I gave up hope of having a loving partner a long time ago,
I am mentally and emotionally too broken for a romantic relationship,
that is why I stay alone until I die
Apathy79
Elementalist
- Oct 13, 2019
- 885
Personally my life improved considerably since breaking up with my previous girlfriend. Night and day difference. I would say with near categoric certainty now that being single is preferable to having a bad girlfriend, for me anyway. I often wonder with questions like this if it is coming from a place of never having had a girlfriend and not knowing the downsides of it. Grass is always greener on the other side type thing. Or whether some people just have a harder time being alone and literally anyone is preferable to that?
ih34rty0u
“die young and save yourself”
- Apr 16, 2024
- 78
not solely but i often feel like the fact that i've never been asked out/in a relationship makes all the other things in life meaningless and my achievements are worthless. im already 21 and it's just so embarrassing. it extremely feeds into my suicidal ideation.
two years ago i was on the verge of death due to anorexia because i took weight loss way too far. i tried to become lovable but it turns out i cannot do anything, it's never enough. im doomed.Similar threads
