I feel like it's time for me to go because a mountain of problems I can't solve and because I have no relationships and friends don't have time for me either. No kids, no spouse, no job, and it's just like difficult to find any reason to continue. Especially if I can't meet my needs. I'm afraid if I don't end it I'll live like this for the remainder of my life and also end up on the street or who knows.
Meretlein
Moderator
- Feb 15, 2019
- 1,199
If it means anything, I have always liked your presence on the forum. I remember you as one of the active members when I joined and was recently wondering where you went.
I am sorry you don't have anyone. I have been very isolated from my peers due to my life situation and it has left a hole in my soul. A lot of us here are in similar boat.
I am sorry you don't have anyone. I have been very isolated from my peers due to my life situation and it has left a hole in my soul. A lot of us here are in similar boat.
articledon
Student
- Feb 27, 2021
- 191
You don't know how much I feel this...my entire family is has passed away, my best friend since I was 8 years old I have not talked with him in over 6 years, I live in a two story 4 bedroom house alone(I don't even put the chain on the front door anymore) I do have savings to last for a while but what for. I'm a recluse and introvert, so I totally feel where you're coming from.
Yea this is my situation. Please nobody say try dating apps lol! I hate meeting pple that way. It's overwhelming to go through and talk to different people. It's really exhausting. Anyway yea I feel like I'm just wasting away and life sucks bad now.
Yea this Covid crap is the final nail in the coffin I think. U can't do life without relationships and in real life connection with other people. I mean u can but it's not the same.
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Not my only reason, but it's the proverbial icing on the cake...
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I gotta admit being lonely made me more depressed but I've got used to it.
I had no choice but to embrace this loneliness so as to get out of that lonesome hole.
I had no choice but to embrace this loneliness so as to get out of that lonesome hole.
I'm feeling really needy right now this sucks.
KuriGohan&Kamehameha
想死不能 - 想活不能
- Nov 23, 2020
- 1,682
If I could I would fly to Argentina right now, travel restrictions be damned, and buy you some Asahi and the best, non-instant ramen.
I don't want any friend of mine to be lonely. None of you should have to suffer in silence.
fred farkle
Specialist
- Dec 17, 2020
- 346
exactly my situation. im in bad shape.
"We're Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Heart's Club Band, We hope you have enjoyed the show..."
articledon
Student
- Feb 27, 2021
- 191
Ok that one gave me a rare chuckle
DetachedDreamer97
Enlightened
- Mar 17, 2018
- 1,402
It's a major factor. I feel like I've overstayed my welcome for the most part.
ZardozOmega
Narcissist Gay NEET-cel
- Mar 4, 2020
- 718
esoterispeec
Student
- Nov 20, 2020
- 130
Yeah I crave intimacy and companionship but have none.
I feel like no on ever actually even liked me not even as a friend
As usual, you're a lovely person! Asahi sounds awesome! I'll be waiting for you lol.
I think the best company for lonely people here on SS, would be the very same people from SS.
I'm sure we would all be excellent friends and have lots of fun!
Ender
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- Dec 29, 2020
- 269
GarageKarate07
Wizard
- Aug 18, 2020
- 665
The isolation has grown increasingly worse since long before C19. It is destroying lives in mass now. We stopped being people a long time ago. We stopped holding each other and holding ourselves to an actually worthwhile standard. Then you add the troubles of "civilized adult life" such as work, housing, food, bills, travel, time, imprisonment, war, and so on. Nobody can do these things by themselves yet everyone is expected to as if the bills are larger and more important than the natural human needs. No rest no breaks no organization to fall on. We have been taught to be complacent in leaving our own children because of social expectations. We have learned how to shun our peers. Then we learned how to ingore the symptoms of that illness and hide any sign of it away to hide that shame. Children CTB and the world goes to their 9 to 5 like its ok for it to not only happen in the past but continue in the future. Utterly sick. This life is not worth the time of great and loving people. We are better off going home to the afterlife and leaving the true refuse to nest in it's own filth.
Marktheghost
Paragon
- Feb 20, 2020
- 911
Totally feel it. Every day is just waiting until bed time with no purpose.
Tortured_empath
Arcanist
- Apr 7, 2019
- 463
I have people in my life but there is a barrier. What I mean is my relationship with my family is so clouded by despair, guilt and shame from my side that it is as if they are there, but at the same time they are not. I love them so very dearly, and it is so hard sometimes I am not sure what to do with myself.
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social exclusion is one of the worst things about mental health issues, and developmantal disorders in general. Even if you manage to mask for a long time, sometimes you will have a breakdown, anxiety attact, burnout etc, lets say you forget to take your meds or they stop working? You will start acting crazy and everyone will just say its an exuse, and leave you.
FreeAngel
Student
- Mar 3, 2021
- 111
In real life I have no one and that is also one of the reasons why I want to die someday but here in this forum I am not alone here are people who understand me
"Yes, they're sharing a drink they call loneliness/
But it's better than drinking alone/"
-Billy Joel, "Piano Man"
