Any blackpillers here

[Not_A_Seagull]

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[left0vers]

What's the exact definition of that?

 

[Not_A_Seagull]

What's the exact definition of that?

The "blackpill" is a nihilistic and fatalistic ideology primarily associated with the involuntary celibate ("incel") online subculture. It posits that romantic success is entirely determined by genetic physical traits and that individuals deemed "inferior" or unattractive have no chance of forming relationships, rendering personal self-improvement efforts futile

 

[aufrechtm7]

There are, but they are wrong

 

[yuri77]

I hate blackpill mfs I'm not gonna lie.

 

[CenturiesEnd]

The "blackpill" is a nihilistic and fatalistic ideology primarily associated with the involuntary celibate ("incel") online subculture. It posits that romantic success is entirely determined by genetic physical traits and that individuals deemed "inferior" or unattractive have no chance of forming relationships, rendering personal self-improvement efforts futile

I have a [genetic] deterministic perspective on pretty much everything (bleak, I know). But when it comes to dating and romance and that kind of stuff, I can't really be bothered to ascribe myself to any sort of "pill" ideology, despite its possible truths. It seems pretty hateful and emotionally charged, to be honest.

 

[fishperson]

The "blackpill" is a nihilistic and fatalistic ideology primarily associated with the involuntary celibate ("incel") online subculture. It posits that romantic success is entirely determined by genetic physical traits and that individuals deemed "inferior" or unattractive have no chance of forming relationships, rendering personal self-improvement efforts futile

Life is predetermined, we have no free will.
But that doesnt mean u cant form relationships. Personally i think relationships and memories are what make life worth living.
But Life is also unbalencedd.
Some people will be surrounded with like minded people while some wont.
I think thats unmotivating and depressing,i can understand why it would make people give up.

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

Lol. What I'd give for my problems to be so

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[U. A.]

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[cvury]

There are, but they are wrong

I hate blackpill mfs I'm not gonna lie.

more people who choose to be ignorant of the truth, that the second you are born if you have bad looks? then your fate is sealed, ugly and short people will never find love and will always be treated like trash. while the good looking people will get everything in life, it's called the halo effect look it up. i can debate blackpill all day its backed up by real university studies.

 

[Riu]

I think they are right that physical attractiveness does do a lot, but their beliefs are very extreme and they think it's everything when it isn't. It's a very tunnel vision close minded view.

 

[iveseenfootage]

more people who choose to be ignorant of the truth, that the second you are born if you have bad looks? then your fate is sealed, ugly and short people will never find love and will always be treated like trash. while the good looking people will get everything in life, it's called the halo effect look it up. i can debate blackpill all day its backed up by real university studies.

Sure I guess bro, but there's no point dwelling on it imo. Accept it and move on, in whatever way "moving on" means to you

 

[U. A.]

i can debate blackpill all day its backed up by real university studies.

Ladies, gentlemen, and nb friends, there you have it: real university studies!

Seriously tho blackpill ≠ lookism holy fucking shit

 

[cvury]

Ladies, gentlemen, and nb friends, there you have it: real university studies!

Seriously tho blackpill ≠ lookism holy fucking shit

why not

Sure I guess bro, but there's no point dwelling on it imo. Accept it and move on, in whatever way "moving on" means to you

why should i be forced to accept something so incredibly unfair and ridiculous

 

[left0vers]

The "blackpill" is a nihilistic and fatalistic ideology primarily associated with the involuntary celibate ("incel") online subculture. It posits that romantic success is entirely determined by genetic physical traits and that individuals deemed "inferior" or unattractive have no chance of forming relationships, rendering personal self-improvement efforts futile

Kind of the fence about it. Looks determine a lot, but you're not completely unable to form relationships as atated here

 

[yuri77]

more people who choose to be ignorant of the truth, that the second you are born if you have bad looks? then your fate is sealed, ugly and short people will never find love and will always be treated like trash. while the good looking people will get everything in life, it's called the halo effect look it up. i can debate blackpill all day its backed up by real university studies.

Or just look at people around you because short and ugly people def can find partners too. Ive seen SO MANY examples of it like what study are you even talking about? I'm not saying looks don't matter but it is not hard to find a partner man. I am also a short guy, my looks are mid and I could still find people who were attracted to me. Your personality matters more and people won't get that.

 

[U. A.]

why not

Because the truth that as animals influenced by culture, humans have preconceived notions of ideal mates when it comes to appearance is for the vast majority of people—aside from psychologically impressionable undersocialised men and the degenerate incels who prey upon them to convert them to their sick ideologies—is nowhere near a strong enough factor to override literally all other human characteristics? idk

 

[cvury]

Or just look at people around you because short and ugly people def can find partners too. Ive seen SO MANY examples of it like what study are you even talking about? I'm not saying looks don't matter but it is not hard to find a partner man. I am also a short guy, my looks are mid and I could still find people who were attracted to me. Your personality matters more and people won't get that.

ahh yes, the classic "i know a guy argument." so i guess personal anecdotes disprove reality. and what studies? here are the studies, but i doubt you'll read them.

https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf

https://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf

 

[interna]

blackpill is essentially men tackling beauty standards and adding misogynistic ideals on top of it
as well as reinforcing sexism

there's not much more to it
it preys on insecure males who are frustrated with their life and gives them an easy, oftentimes modifiable outlet such as appearance. this ties in to looksmaxxing courses and selfharming behaviors like bonesmashing.

likewise, this happens to women as well. it's all just the beauty industry doing its beauty industry thing.

blackpill specifically focuses on redirecting your own frustration and shame to other people, thus feeding individualism and the "us vs them" tactic most ideologies possess. "women won't ever take me over chad," "stacys are dumb, shallow bitches," "chads will always cuck you". sentiments purposefully created and echoed in order to keep you miserable, so that you hopefully end up harming yourself or others.

 

[yuri77]

ahh yes, the classic "i know a guy argument." so i guess personal anecdotes disprove reality. and what studies? here are the studies, but i doubt you'll read them.

https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf

https://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf

It's not "i know a guy" I know MORE than one. I could count so many like literally i'm talking about more than 50 people. Don't you have relatives, classmates, friends? Do you think they're all good looking? I'll read the studies now and tell you what I think about them but seriously stop being so close-minded. The real issue is your personality.

 

[cvury]

It's not "i know a guy" I know MORE than one. I could count so many like literally i'm talking about more than 50 people. Don't you have relatives, classmates, friends? Do you think they're all good looking? I'll read the studies now and tell you what I think about them but seriously stop being so close-minded. The real issue is your personality.

it's not close-minded when data proves it. personality doesn't matter in this world. that's why women always run to attractive douches who treat them like trash. while the nice guy finishes last lol

Because the truth that as animals influenced by culture, humans have preconceived notions of ideal mates when it comes to appearance is for the vast majority of people—aside from psychologically impressionable undersocialised men and the degenerate incels who prey upon them to convert them to their sick ideologies—is nowhere near a strong enough factor to override literally all other human characteristics? idk

read screenshot

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

I'm a woman and I'm gonna tell you right now that tall men in general have broken my neck SOOOOOO many times. It's just natural I guess, when I'm 160 centimeters unless they get on their knees I just have to look up at them and strain my neck because for some reason they decided to be tall and not tell anyone; God damn sky scrapers, they're trying to hog the sky for themselves, a couple more centimeters and they'd be in military's air space.

Spruces, all of them, I don't respect 'em.

 

[jojobanana]

there's no doubt looks are significant. but COME ON bruh i just want to shake them and tell them how many women just want a man that's genuinely a good person. have u seen benny blanco dude. and genuinely everyone is beautiful to somebody. relationships are more than that.

 

[yuri77]

it's not close-minded when data proves it. personality doesn't matter in this world. that's why women always run to attractive douches who treat them like trash. while the nice guy finishes last lol

This is why no women want to date you. You literally have the incel mindset and the first study you showed is for "speed dating" not even in real life experiences. Have you even tried acting normal around women? It also says men care about physical attractiveness more than women do like do you even read what you send? This isn't considered a scientific study since it's just a university research btw. Seriously go outside and stop treating women like that.

 

[Matchaaa]

I feel this theory oversimplifies things. While I can understand why they might feel frustrated—and while appearance and physical attractiveness do play a role—they are by no means the only factors.
but I do not endorse such overly misogynistic rhetoric,understanding why they think that way doesn't mean I agree with them.

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

ahh yes, the classic "i know a guy argument." so i guess personal anecdotes disprove reality. and what studies? here are the studies, but i doubt you'll read them.

https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf

https://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf

Try not to post an image that uses the word retard in that way.

 

[iveseenfootage]

why should i be forced to accept something so incredibly unfair and ridiculous

Nobody is forcing you to do anything. Biology and evolution does as it always has. You can't change it lol, it's not a system that can be fixed with a revolution. Crying won't help either!

 

[Caribbean Sky]

There are, but they are wrong

tell me about it. "im so ugly and there is nothing i can do about it, i cant change my looks or myself, the sun exploding tomorrow is more possible than a woman loving me" uh-huh. so she didn't like it when you asked for nudes im guessing?

its insane to me that these weirdos are trying to say that anything is possible except for simple self care and improvement. that self improvement is somehow cosmically impossible?? and we must start a revolution instead?? like what? just shower bro…
Who even started this blackpill bs? I have seen it around for like, a week, and it will probably disappear as fast as 67. it just seems like some kind of stupid trend to make edits with.
like seriously, who even made this or popularized it? Feels like it was made by some creepy white us congressman as propaganda after he got rejected after trying to harass a woman and was surprised that his worldview that as a old white powerful man that women would cater to him was shattered.
Maybe im just on my period but even the andrew tate bs didn't annoy me this bad.

Literally anyone can become physically "hot" if they want to. but it's evil and cruel that you can't get a hot girlfriend by being a jackass and sitting on your ass useless ig

I tried to read those "proof" of blackpill links that user sent and one's not even saying blackpill, it's a general study of influences on attraction, and the other is a dead link…

 

[left0vers]

Damn, half the active user base is viewing this thread

 

[WrathfulGloom32]

Nobody is forcing you to do anything. Biology and evolution does as it always has. You can't change it lol, it's not a system that can be fixed with a revolution. Crying won't help either!

Yeah...focus on what can you do instead of whining about it, women don't like tiny wheeners, winers? whenirs? how do you spell it? weener?