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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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Been talking for a while with a girl and suddenly she asks me for nudes. I don't feel good sending that kind of stuff so I turned her down. Now her pictures disapeared, so she blocked me on whatsapp. I feel like the girls nowadays don't want a relationship, but still I feel bad she did that to me. Potential suiciders shouldn't get envolved with women.
 
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Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ Sometimes I'm stressed
Jul 1, 2020
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If she left you over nudes she has zero respect for you. She's better off sitting on curb in the rain.
 
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WornOutLife

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Mar 22, 2020
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Not with nudes, but something similar happened to me with a girl last year and since then I've decided to be single till I CTB.
(state in which I'll be even more single I guess lol)
 
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MiseryLovesMyCompany

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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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My urge to suicide just gets higher and higher. I hate myself.
 
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Jumper Geo

Jumper Geo

Life's a bitch and then you die.
Feb 23, 2020
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I usally get blocked after sending nudes, :smiling: Like people said if she blocked you over something petty like that it wouldn't have gone no where.

Die with dignity.

Cheers

Geo
 
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karaboudjan

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Sep 24, 2020
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Maybe I'm out of touch, but I wouldn't feel comfortable sending nudes to someone I hadn't established trust with. It's awkward when they send nudes first and then expect you to reciprocate. Honestly you're better off without someone who doesn't respect your personal boundaries.
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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Maybe I'm out of touch, but I wouldn't feel comfortable sending nudes to someone I hadn't established trust with. It's awkward when they send nudes first and then expect you to reciprocate. Honestly you're better off without someone who doesn't respect your personal boundaries.
She didn't even send me nudes, just asked for. It's the same girl that a few days ago took a picture with a guy who looks like a drug dealer, with so much intimacy.
 
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Symbiote

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Oct 12, 2020
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She didn't even send me nudes, just asked for. It's the same girl that a few days ago took a picture with a guy who looks like a drug dealer, with so much intimacy.

Pretty sure that's a dude behind the account and he's just collecting nude photos to blackmail you with. Don't get upset over it, just that you dodged a bullet.
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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Pretty sure that's a dude behind the account and he's just collecting nude photos to blackmail you with. Don't get upset over it, just that you dodged a bullet.
No, it's definitely a girl. I had video chat with her once. It's probably just a nasty girl who hates nice guys like me.
 
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Symbiote

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No, it's definitely a girl. I had video chat with her once. It's probably just a nasty girl who hates nice guys like me.

No one likes "nice guys" in this world. They always have some strings attached. The more of an asshole you are, the better. Also women can blackmail you over pictures too.
 
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Ghost2211

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Sorry you had to deal with a creeper like that. I wouldn't look at it like being rejected but rather dodging a predictor.
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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No one likes "nice guys" in this world. They always have some strings attached. The more of an asshole you are, the better. Also women can blackmail you over pictures too.
She was waiting that I would send her nudes and when she realized I wouldn't send she get pissed off and block me. She thought I was just as nasty as she is. I regret not sending the pics. Maybe it's a normal behavior nowadays and I'm unware of that.
 
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Symbiote

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Oct 12, 2020
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That's not a rejection. That's a bullet dodged! Dust it off and try again if you want to. What app you using? Tinder? OnlyFans?
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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That's not a rejection. That's a bullet dodged! Dust it off and try again if you want to. What app you using? Tinder? OnlyFans?
I was using tinder but after that I deleted my account.
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
446
If you were able to chat online with her on cam why would she need nude photos? She could just look at your body live on cam.
Because I wasn't naked on cam. She wanted to see my d***
 
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Deleted member 17949

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May 9, 2020
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Whatever the story on their end is they are clearly not what you're looking for, so disappointing as it may be you dodged a bullet
 
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Steamm

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Feb 28, 2020
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But a photo when she could see it live on cam? Also who is to say it's really yours in the photo if you sent one?
Something doesn't add up. Why wouldn't she ask for that right away if it was so important to her?
I was talking to her by message on whatsapp and told her "wish I could be right now with you there" and she asks me for nudes right away. It's like she would only invite me to her house if she sees my dick first.
 
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fearmenot

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Oct 25, 2020
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I'm glad you didn't send those nudes you never know who is a catfish and who isn't , unless you call on Nev
 
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cii

cii

"Well, it's groundhog day. Again."
Oct 24, 2020
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She's a strange one alright. All women aren't like that, don't let her jade you. I'm sorry someone you liked treated you like that, I'm glad you didn't send her anything. She clearly wasn't a good person since she didn't respect your wishes. Hope you will find someone better, friend.
 
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