Am I self ish for feeling very emp ty and lo nely bc alm ost all of my friend s I talk to on dm on a frequent basis is on a bre ak from ss?

[Silent_cries]

Do no t get me wro ng. I understand why it is neccecary for some people sometimes, and I want them to do what is best for them by any mea ns.

I really mi ss them though and sometimes I really wish they wou ld just come ba ck and it make me feel so self ish for feeling that way.

I do no t know, it get s lo nely with out them I guess...

 

[Forever Sleep]

We're only human at the end of the day. I'm really missing someone I used to PM a lot. No, I don't think you're entirely selfish. I hope I'm not too. We both want the best for them. If that means them taking a break or leaving the forum or, even CTB, I suspect we would accept that and try to hope for the best for them. We all have needs though and, sometimes we're lucky enough to find someone who fills those needs for a time. Then, it's difficult not to feel an attachment towards them and basically mourn for it when it goes. I'm sorry. I'm going through the same at the moment. Plus, telling myself it serves me right for putting hopes on friendship again. I ought to have learnt my lesson by now.