Venting This website has become too anti-suicide and life valuing

[Chinaski]

This is my favorite flavor of Funeral Cry posts. All these years mods have protected you from "bullies". People have been warned just for arguing against you calling people who want to live delusional, because we can't have people ganging up on poor FC. Now you just shit talk how this place is run over and over on an endless loop. Hilarious.

Absolutely agree with this, this user has benefitted from administrative decisions weighted so heavily in their favour for years, now we're at a point where FC is complaining daily that this still is not enough for her despite the excessive indulgence afforded to her.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

And you coud just probably wasting your time

That's the entire point. I am wasting my time and that's why I'm here. My entire life is just me wasting my time away until I'm dead

Edit: why did you use the laughing reaction @final_countdown12? What's funny about what I said?

 

[final_countdown12]

That's the entire point. I am wasting my time and that's why I'm here. My entire life is just me wasting my time away until I'm dead

Edit: why did you use the laughing reaction @final_countdown12? What's funny about what I said?

Found funny response to my previous message
Im also wasting my time here, just few weeks left to Bye Bye to the world.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Found funny response to my previous message

Could you clarify/elaborate?

Im also wasting my time here, just few weeks left to Bye Bye to the world.

I hope you find peace whether you decide to leave the world or not

 

[rotciv]

I am pro-lifer and proud!!

 

[final_countdown12]

Could you clarify/elaborate?

i will tell you in another life when we are both cats

 

[lovedread]

It's depressing to come on here and see pro-lifers, I wish they wouldn't allow that. This website should be all about respecting personal choice and the acceptance of suicide as a valid option, not forcing life valuing beliefs onto others. People who love life literally have everywhere else to go to, it's disgusting to see people just repeating the same things you'd expect to see outside of the site. The suicide discussion should be a place to let people vent openly with their only ever being support towards the personal decision to die, I cannot stand anything anti-suicide, it just makes me want death more, those who hate existing and want to die deserve a safe space away from pro-lifers. In my view this website in terms of content has became too anti-suicide and life valuing which I despise as I'd never wish to exist no matter what, I wish I never existed more than anything, to have the ability to exist is beyond undesirable.

I can sort of understand your point, I felt anti-existance and and anti-life in general when I was younger. But maybe you can also see that, for some of us on this site, even though we are suicidal (emphasis on SOME) we would rather life astronomically improve than off ourselves outright. Some of oscillate pretty dramatically between wanting to live and wanting so badly to just die. Some of us are more passive in our suicidal ideation. Some of us(at least i know i do) don't see suicide as the grandiose glorified thing…we see it as the final, depressing, grim option that we wish we didn't have to resort to, hence the encouraging words sometimes.

Tbh FC this site will probably never be what you have envisioned. I mean, even years ago when I first joined ppl tried to offer solutions other than suicide. For some of us, these solutions/encouragement sorta kinda helps to ease a pain atleast a little.

You have a right to want you want, and I know there's probably a very good reason why you see things how you do. Just keep in mind SI doesn't look the same for everyone. This site is more so pro-choice, not pro-death though Im sure if you wanted to create a space catered to your needs, you could. But i hope that my explanation makes sense to you and can help you understand why some of us aren't pro-death, and that this site becomes a place you can be a bit less incensed by.

 

[final_countdown12]

I hope you find peace whether you decide to leave the world or not

Hope you find peace soon

 

[melancholymallory03]

Hey What or …who are you referring to funeral cry? if you don't mind me asking….

If you are speaking about the recovery section , I myself avoid it

( unless I accidentally click on it which actually happens all the time )

I feel like this section serves a purpose just like the suicide discussion , although I never see myself being in a place of recovery , or the same ideals . I can recognize why it might be necessary to have these sections coexist together on SS because there are people who may want help in some regard and we cannot judge them or shame them and group them into a category of pro lifers .

I say all of this not being a " pro lifer "
I guess I just don't understand this term in the context you're using it because I really don't see many pro lifers on the suicide discussion side of the site ……

pro lifers?? here?

This is kind of what I was mentioning because I don't usually see many pro lifers here unless I go into the recovery section ? But that's understandable I guess so I don't really feel the need to complain …..

I'm pretty sure u can also block yourself from seeing the recovery section even so I'm super confused at who this post is directed at lol but maybe I'm proposing they are just venting and once again , perhaps not seeing things 100% clearly ….. not meaning to say that as a put down

…. Funeral cry confuses my brain

I am pro-lifer and proud!!

Ok I found one

I am pro-lifer and proud!!

Sir can you please escort yourself to the recovery section ……. I don't exactly know what you're doing here ….

 

[willitpass]

Oh, sorry, my bad. I keep forgetting that this is a death cult where we can only want and worship death regardless of someone's situation. I'll do better next time, next post I see where someone is expressing their suffering and wish to live but feeling there is no way out of their situation I'll remember to tell them that death is the best option and help them find the perfect method to suit their needs rather than comfort them and offer them options. Thank for for the reminder! I'll also remember to refrain from posting about self harm as it is repulsive and means I don't truly want to die. Thanks for the help!

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

And are these prolifers in the room with us right now?