Who else feels ugly?

[jj83]

I feel so ugly that I don't leave the house anymore.

 

[Pookie]

Me.

 

[Life_and_Death]

every part of my body is imperfect and i hate it

 

[FuneralCry]

I feel the ugliest on the inside. Consciousness can be a repulsive thing. I do hate my body, mostly for all the health issues it has put me through.

 

[death137]

Me too

 

[LastFlowers]

every part of my body is imperfect and i hate it

Are you doing this on purpose?
You've already basically referred to yourself as 'pretty' and alluded to as much in other threads. As well as trying to equate being 'pretty' with being 'ugly', as if they incite the same amount of damage (they don't..which should be more than obvious.)
Why do you continue to try to involve yourself in this issue?
What is the complex?

I try to ignore the nonsense in the recent conversation but now it's going to pop up on every thread with the term "ugly" in it?
I don't feel like entering a larping festival every time I see this topic, having to worry about people who don't get it, equipping themselves with a Trojan Horse so they can continue to undermine the severity and objectivity of this issue by falsely attributing its consequences to themselves, where they do not apply.

No one really has a feature that is "perfect", that's besides the point, but many have features that are ugly, below average, average, pretty, strikingly beautiful...it's an (unfortunate) spectrum and if you're off to the positive end then you aren't ugly, you're just nit-picking.
I'm not saying that every person shouldn't have the right to look exactly as they please (I think everyone should), even if they are markedly closer to the ideal than most, but really, those who have a genuine reason for feeling ugly physically (because they actually are) are not the audience for a pretty person's woes about not being slightly more pretty.

(And here is yet another thread where I will not be commenting further.)

 

[WornOutLife]

According to some people. I used to be "handsome" but since I gained lots of weight, I feel very ugly and don't wanna leave my house.
I just go to the supermarket and try to see as less people as possible.

 

[Jumper Geo]

I'm ugly but feel beautiful, plus I'm bloody a fattie now, but even the most beautiful people in the world don't feel that way.

In The Head Of A Beautiful Woman Who Thinks She’s Ugly

And my advice to you if you want to date one.

medium.com

Cheers

Geo

 

[sad]

Me 100%

 

[Hurt]

I'm normal but unlucky with women. I don't consider myself ugly.

 

[motel rooms]

Are you doing this on purpose?

I don't think she is. You might want to read some of her threads before you get so angry, she is genuinely suffering

 

[EnnuiCat]

I'm not grotesque but I'm well below average. I've always considered myself ugly.

 

[Life_and_Death]

I don't think she is. You might want to read some of her threads before you get so angry, she is genuinely suffering

while what you said made me shake and cry a little....thank you. even though ive told people, even though they know, ive asked and people said that it was bad. ive had people tell me to stop talking about it, but ive never had anyone say those specific words. idk, i just found that they hit different when i opened my laptop.

 

[death137]

I don't think she is. You might want to read some of her threads before you get so angry, she is genuinely suffering

No one is doubting her suffering. I believe any reason is legitimate if the person is suffering from it. For example a billionaire might feel suicidal for not being a trillionaire. That person reason for feeling suicidal should be respected. But you don't think it's right for that person to go to suicidal beggars and says he feel bad for not being a trillionaire.

 

[Life_and_Death]

But you don't think it's right for that person to go to suicidal beggars and says he feel bad for not being a trillionaire.

if this is what you believe then you lack understanding. we arent talking about money here we are talking about respect which should be given to every individual. there is a difference. how would you feel to have your self respect stripped away to nothing. to feel that the only way to be noticed is to do things that make you feel sick and disgusting? being pretty isnt all sunshine and rainbows and thats all i was saying. that every thing comes with their own problems and that the grass isnt always greener on the other side


edit: to clarify, i know that you arent talking specifically about money but the advantages of it. what im saying is that what some people consider "advantages" of being pretty really isnt. those "advantages" is just blatant disrespect and people need to stop treating like it isnt. people should be respected no matter what.

 

[death137]

if this is what you believe then you lack understanding. we arent talking about money here we are talking about respect which should be given to every individual. there is a difference. how would you feel to have your self respect stripped away to nothing. to feel that the only way to be noticed is to do things that make you feel sick and disgusting? being pretty isnt all sunshine and rainbows and thats all i was saying. that every thing comes with their own problems and that the grass isnt always greener on the other side


edit: to clarify, i know that you arent talking specifically about money but the advantages of it. what im saying is that what some people consider "advantages" of being pretty really isnt. those "advantages" is just blatant disrespect and people need to stop treating like it isnt. people should be respected no matter what.

I know being pretty isn't all sunshine but if you hate being pretty then why do you complain about your body not being perfect? Why do you want to be more pretty?

 

[Amumu]

I've always felt ugly since I was 5 I think. It's one of the worst feelings we can experience in life.
Especially when people around you confirm what you think.

 

[AloeGarten]

yup. thank god for masks, i can barely even show my face to my friends anymore. just looking in the mirror puts me in a bad mood and makes me feel like shit

 

[Life_and_Death]

I know being pretty isn't all sunshine but if you hate being pretty then why do you complain about your body not being perfect? Why do you want to be more pretty?

you still dont understand and i dont see anything else to explain. i think i stated it fairly clearly here:

those "advantages" is just blatant disrespect and people need to stop treating like it isnt. people should be respected no matter what.

also i owe no one an explanation for how i personally feel.

 

[quack]

Yeah I've developed agoraphobia as a result of body dysmorphia. It sucks

 

[k75]

I've gotten to the point where I really don't want to exist for other people anymore, and I don't want anyone to see me. My face is okay... but my body is not. Even though my scars are hidden, I feel completely mutilated from botched surgeries. It's always on my mind, and that affects how I interact with other people now even though most of them don't have any idea, I guess. I just feel it so strongly that it feels like everybody knows and I'm ashamed of it, so all I want to do is hide. Even from my best friend. I don't even like to go check my mail anymore. I'll do it at times when I'm not likely to run into anyone, like very late at night. I enjoy wearing the masks when I finally have to go out shopping, because it's another layer of fading away.

 

[Life_and_Death]

No one is doubting her suffering.

also now that im more awake and thinking about. by asking if im doing it on purpose, its inferring that im lying so yes my suffering is in doubt.
and im not on trial and this isnt about me. im speaking for EVERYONE not ME. please figure out the difference.

 

[killedbypsychiatry]

I feel so ugly that I don't leave the house anymore.

Me as well. When I got sick I deteriorated a lot and now I can't go out. I don't want no one to see me like this. I just want to disappear. I haven't gone out in about a year and I wonder how much I can keep hiding... >_<

 

[death137]

@Life_and_Death, no one is begging for your explanation. You said contradicting thing and I asked a question. If you don't want to answer then don't. It's simple.

 

[Life_and_Death]

@Life_and_Death, no one is begging for your explanation. You said contradicting thing and I asked a question. If you don't want to answer then don't. It's simple.

may i pm you? id answer here but id rather not get backlash from that. you arent causing me much in the way of problems so i dont see why i cant tell you.

 

[suicidesheep31]

I am ugly and hate myself.

 

[death137]

may i pm you? id answer here but id rather not get backlash from that. you arent causing me much in the way of problems so i dont see why i cant tell you.

You can

 

[NormaJeane]

I feel so ugly that I don't leave the house anymore.

We will all be ugly if we live long enough - time changes and destroys everything.