I don't know about life being a lie, but I do feel love is so often an joint illusion two people participate in. We see what we want to see in the other person, or have unrealistic fantasies of what the relationship can do for us. When in reality, so often it's just two people trying the best they can before they break apart again. I also don't believe unconditional love is real.
I do not believe in unconditional love either. I believe to some degree we have proven that over time.
Something I posted in another thread:
Love is just a feeling, some kind of emotion. It's the only one is science that we have yet to be able to explain where it comes from. Love comes and goes like a virus. (hands you a tissue) There one moment and gone the next.
In the end, I think love is more of a connection than anything else. When we connect with someone we can feel a deep fondness for that person and when the connection is strained or frayed like anything else in this world...the connection can be lost.
I saw life is a lie for the reasons people say we are here...I say it is a lie for the lies they tell us during our existence.
I also say life is a lie for the seer fact that I often wonder upon waking am I even real? Once again, in another thread:
Do you exist because you say I exist? Or do you exist because you say that you do? In turn, does the couch only exist because I am there to view it and if I look away would it then be non-existent? And if I was to die would the reality that I know it (say you for instance) then cease to exist because I no longer exist? Am I real or am I only real because you say so? Or because I say that I do? If our mind is just energy and energy can then transform what is to say that I am not just a memory of a time gone by and as I type this I am already dead.
And in thought process I can view life as a lie.
This is my rational.
As for love....love is a lie...thank you and come again!
xx