I have a job interview on monday

[NothingElseMatters]

And I think I'm close to get the job, but now I don't want to work. Why did I apply to that on the first place? I hate myself. me and my crazy mind. Now I have to go.

 

[bloomingdark]

May i ask ,is this job a neccesity or do you have any other income or way to sustain yourself? , If you do have other income and feel like regretting applying the job, take this few days to think really well if you're mentally and physically able to work right now, i know it can be bad to not go , but that would be nothing compared to the damage you will do to your mental health in case you're not ready/motivated



Take care, i hope you can figure it out and have the best outcome on this situation

Lots of love

 

[NothingElseMatters]

May i ask ,is this job a neccesity or do you have any other income or way to sustain yourself? , If you do have other income and feel like regretting applying the job, take this few days to think really well if you're mentally and physically able to work right now, i know it can be bad to not go , but that would be nothing compared to the damage you will do to your mental health in case you're not ready/motivated



Take care, i hope you can figure it out and have the best outcome on this situation

Lots of love

Thanks for your reply. It's not necessary, I have how to sustain myself with what I have. I just applied so I could have more experience in the future, but I don't think I'm mentaly ready for this. Damn, why I did that...

 

[fred farkle]

Have some fun. Go in and act like a goofball,say a lot of innappropriate stuff,etc.
If you are inter. by a woman...heh heh heh "I am quite impressed with those bazooms of yours! Me so horny!"
What if they hired you anywsy?? lol

 

[Trisolaris]

Maybe it will make you feel better.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

If the choice is between being suicidal at home or being suicidal at work and getting paid for it I guess it makes sense to pick the latter option.

 

[WornOutLife]

If you have another kind of income you should just not go if you don't feel ready yet.

I remember doing the same a few times. I just applied for jobs, even went to some interviews, got them and then either tell them I couldn't accept the job or just ignore them (this shouldn't be done but sometimes I just couldn't act as a mature person).

 

[NothingElseMatters]

If you have another kind of income you should just not go if you don't feel ready yet.

I remember doing the same a few times. I just applied for jobs, even went to some interviews, got them and then either tell them I couldn't accept the job or just ignore them (this shouldn't be done but sometimes I just couldn't act as a mature person).

How did you tell them you don't want the job anymore aftet they have accepted you?

 

[WornOutLife]

How did you tell them you don't want the job anymore aftet they have accepted you?

I used to some excuse such as "Another opportunity I was waiting for just came up" or "My family is going through a lot and they really need me" and sent them an e-mail explaing that and how sorry I was. I never had the guts to say it by phone lol

 

[NothingElseMatters]

I invented some excuse such as "Another opportunity I was waiting for just came up" or "My family is going through a lot and they really need me" and sent them an e-mail explaing that and how sorry I was. I never had the guts to say it by phone lol

I feel bad for letting go an oportunity but I don't think I'm ready to deal with it. I don't know if I'll have another oporrunity again since I'm too old but... I really don't know how to get away from it.

 

[WornOutLife]

I feel bad for letting go an oportunity but I don't think I'm ready to deal with it. I don't know if I'll have another oporrunity again since I'm too old but... I really don't know how to get away from it.

What about trying to go for a few days and if you confirm that things are not working just tell your boss "I'm sorry. This job is not for me. Thanks for everything"?

 

[Symbiote]

I'm in the same boat, I got an interview on Tuesday, 3rd round. If I pass this then it's a another life upgrade in the financial department. It's like trying to keep up with the Joneses and the Williams in some people's eyes, but maybe my lifestyle is one of comfort and just challenging myself in my work. Hate being bored at a job.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

What about trying to go for a few days and if you confirm that things are not working just tell your boss "I'm sorry. This job is not for me. Thanks for everything"?

I think that would be worse for my carreer, giving up a job few days after I'm in. I don't know what to do and I'm running out of time. I evwn thought about delete my number so they won't contact me lol.