gasterblaster

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I used a local source since SN is not regulated where I live. Is it weird to say I'm sort of relieved, glad even? To have a decent method at hand?

Since I have been experiencing months of regular life and others of figurative hell, I haven't established a date, but I will be writing a note in the next few days. At least to get that out of the way.

I was wondering whether I should get a notarized will? I would like to leave the savings and items I have to a specific relative. Otherwise they would need to go to court to claim them. Anyway. A bit of a rambly first post ,,,
 
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locked*n*loaded

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I would definitely make out a legal will if you're able. Saves a lot of trouble for the heirs you name.
 
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gasterblaster

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I would definitely make out a legal will if you're able. Saves a lot of trouble for the heirs you name.
I just learned that I need witnesses to make it legally valid. Talk about raising suspicion haha. I'll have to see what I can do
 
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I just learned that I need witnesses to make it legally valid. Talk about raising suspicion haha. I'll have to see what I can do
I didn't have my own witness. I'm US, btw. We were able to use another office person as a witness. For me it wasn't about raising suspicion, although I can understand how it might. I just don't have anyone, no family or friends. There are lots of people that have no one. That can't be a barrier to having a will drafted.
 
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I just learned that I need witnesses to make it legally valid. Talk about raising suspicion haha. I'll have to see what I can do
Depending on your age, it may not even raise any suspicions. Plenty of people do this, especially when they get older.
 
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I didn't have my own witness. I'm US, btw. We were able to use another office person as a witness. For me it wasn't about raising suspicion, although I can understand how it might. I just don't have anyone, no family or friends. There are lots of people that have no one. That can't be a barrier to having a will drafted.
This, you dont need family etc to be a witness necessarily. Just someone who is also willing to sign saying they saw you sign, pretty much.
 
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This, you dont need family etc to be a witness necessarily. Just someone who is also willing to sign saying they saw you sign, pretty much.
It makes sense that it doesn't have to be someone I know. I'm not in the US, but I will try doing this, thank you
 

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