rainydaystocbt
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- Nov 15, 2019
- 9
So for some background you might want to read my first vent post on my profile w the same name. Basically I was ranting about a really self absorbed roommate
This is an update, both on the situation and on her.
Jesus christ she is a bitch.
So firstly, something I forgot to mention is first time she hit on a male flatmate, he politely rejected her and she wouldnt stop picking fights with him and making him seem like a bad person. It was only when other flatmates began to get fed up with her shit that he came forward and told us. Like jesus christ, this girl has been s*xually assaulted, youd think shed understand consent. But she doesnt. And this incident is a good explanation of her behaviour, if she doesnt get what she wants she causes drama. She literally bullied this poor guy for four months just because he didnt want to fuck her!!!! If the roles had been reversed he would have been kicked out.
Now she often vents to one of the flatmates, this dude
a) already has mental health issues and trauma and b) couldnt say no to save his life.
So whenever she feels like talking at someone for six hours she went to him. Then, recently, while venting at him she told him he reminded her of her dad (a cute little thing she says to any dude who talks to her for more than five minutes) and called him (the flatmate) an abuser...... while hes been actively helping her and putting up with her shit despite the fact it's been trigger his own anxiety n shit... the reason she goes to him so often is because he cant stand up to her, hes too scared of conflict.
Like yeah, her own behaviour isnt at all abusive whatsoever, she doesnt take advantage of people and force them into positions where they're scared to say no due to the implied outcome of either anger or self harm.
God I really cant stand her, luckily I'm not alone in this but still, her behaviour is so toxic and attention based and she never, ever thinks about how her actions affect anyone else. She plays the victim constantly even though, out of all the flat members shes caused the most harm.
And as I said in my first post, if she didnt have trauma she would be the most boring person on the planet. Shes very "I'm not like other girls", she will degrade a woman for being "basic and just wanting guys" while.... also- wanting nothing but Male attention? Which isnt bad but honey own up to it and dont be a bitch when they reject you
But I forget shes so quirky because she can read books and has plants and is just not like other girls because shes sooo weird like did you know her families rasta you wouldnt tell from her amazing cooking because all that shit tastes the same
God shes a twat
Like at least I'm aware I'm a boring cliche of a human being but she is so high on her own toxic smoke...
I think the only reason she gets away with shit is because shes attractive, if anyone else in the flat did what she did, if a guy did what she did, she would have been in so much shit.
This is an update, both on the situation and on her.
Jesus christ she is a bitch.
So firstly, something I forgot to mention is first time she hit on a male flatmate, he politely rejected her and she wouldnt stop picking fights with him and making him seem like a bad person. It was only when other flatmates began to get fed up with her shit that he came forward and told us. Like jesus christ, this girl has been s*xually assaulted, youd think shed understand consent. But she doesnt. And this incident is a good explanation of her behaviour, if she doesnt get what she wants she causes drama. She literally bullied this poor guy for four months just because he didnt want to fuck her!!!! If the roles had been reversed he would have been kicked out.
Now she often vents to one of the flatmates, this dude
a) already has mental health issues and trauma and b) couldnt say no to save his life.
So whenever she feels like talking at someone for six hours she went to him. Then, recently, while venting at him she told him he reminded her of her dad (a cute little thing she says to any dude who talks to her for more than five minutes) and called him (the flatmate) an abuser...... while hes been actively helping her and putting up with her shit despite the fact it's been trigger his own anxiety n shit... the reason she goes to him so often is because he cant stand up to her, hes too scared of conflict.
Like yeah, her own behaviour isnt at all abusive whatsoever, she doesnt take advantage of people and force them into positions where they're scared to say no due to the implied outcome of either anger or self harm.
God I really cant stand her, luckily I'm not alone in this but still, her behaviour is so toxic and attention based and she never, ever thinks about how her actions affect anyone else. She plays the victim constantly even though, out of all the flat members shes caused the most harm.
And as I said in my first post, if she didnt have trauma she would be the most boring person on the planet. Shes very "I'm not like other girls", she will degrade a woman for being "basic and just wanting guys" while.... also- wanting nothing but Male attention? Which isnt bad but honey own up to it and dont be a bitch when they reject you
But I forget shes so quirky because she can read books and has plants and is just not like other girls because shes sooo weird like did you know her families rasta you wouldnt tell from her amazing cooking because all that shit tastes the same
God shes a twat
Like at least I'm aware I'm a boring cliche of a human being but she is so high on her own toxic smoke...
I think the only reason she gets away with shit is because shes attractive, if anyone else in the flat did what she did, if a guy did what she did, she would have been in so much shit.
