How can I give my family the rest of my money?

[Ktenacious007]

I'm going to do it in my car in their driveway. At night when everyone is asleep. But we are not in good terms and I don't want to leave the money in their house cause I won't get it back if I change my mind.
Trying to think of a way I can give them the money and they'll be the first to get to it when I die but if I change my mind last minute cause too scared I can get it back and not be broke.
If I leave it in my car when I commit suicide afraid cops will take it or maybe cause I have debt. Was thinking about sending it to them via zelle but if I change mind I'm screwed. Suggestions?

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I'd leave cash on the sidewalk and hope that my family runs into it after I've ctb'd.

 

[eureka8]

This might seem a bit complicated, but have you considered indirectly mailing the money?

Get a small box or an envelope, put the cash in it, maybe with a note explaining who you want to receive what amount.
Now the IMPORTANT part: rather than putting their address as recipient, use your own! Put their address as the sender and send it via REGISTERED MAIL.

If you don't end up CTB-ing, you'll be able to accept the package, get your money back and nobody will know a thing. If you DO succeed, the package will be sent to your family because you won't be able to receive mail when you're dead.

 

[WornOutLife]

I have no idea about the legal procedure but if that money is in your bank account, can't your family get it back? It just goes...to the government? nonsense!!

As for me, I will leave all my money hidden in my parents house. I know some spots in which they will never find it lol.

 

[Ktenacious007]

I have no idea about the legal procedure but if that money is in your bank account, can't your family get it back? It just goes...to the government? nonsense!!

As for me, I will leave all my money hidden in my parents house. I know some spots in which they will never find it lol.

If you're in debt the courts decide where it goes

 

[CleosAsp]

Write a Will.

 

[Ktenacious007]

Write a Will.

Debt collection companies will get debt. I have unpaid taxes and student loans. I'm just trying to make sure my family had enough money to pay for my cremation so I'm not a burden on them anymore.

 

[alown]

withdraw the money in an ATM or at your bank counter and place it in a box leaving a note for your family, when you die all your items will be analyzed and they will inevitably fall on it

 

[UterEntonaur]

Suggestions?

Can you schedule a payment with your bank/online banking? With my online banking (Barclays UK) I can set a date/time that money is transferred into another account and I can cancel the transaction until that point.

If not, it might be worth finding out if your bank can arrange a one-off Standing Order

 

[BottomlessPit]

Can you schedule a payment with your bank/online banking? With my online banking (Barclays UK) I can set a date/time that money is transferred into another account and I can cancel the transaction until that point.

I played with the idea as well, but I'm a bit paranoid that the bank might flag that as suspicious activity. Because moving large sums of money all at once and leaving the account empty as a result is just plain weird.

 

[listeningpost1379]

Get a lawyer to write a will. Inheritance taxes are the main reason holding me back honestly, the thought of money going to this government that caused all of my suffering instead of my family infuriates me

 

[brokenwaves]

only idea i can think of would be to withdraw your money and hide it somewhere in your home, and send a scheduled email to family member that you are leaving the money for them physically to avoid it being taken by debt people & tell them the specific location (in a mug/behind some books/under mattress/etc). they can then go to your place to collect it, which i'm sure they would be given access if they say they are collecting your belongings. this way if your attempt fails you can cancel email/still have the money in your possession