The kids I babysat for are doing better than me
Seriously this is true for me. Kids I sat for now are lawyers, own their own companies, are happily married, etc etc.
I don't begrudge what others' have earned through their hard work or dedication, but I do get angry at the universe? I guess? when I see these people I grew up with who have great health despite abusing their bodies, have money and homes and take vacations and do all the things I wish I could've done all because of their parents' money or name or they married money...and my life has been a total shitshow practically since birth. I know life isn't fair but damn, it's JUST NOT FAIR. I was born sickly, unattractive, not that smart, no special talent at anything, I wasn't born into money, I didn't marry rich (or happily). Nothing. I guess the comparing I do of myself to others and to others' achievements ultimately makes me most upset because I wish I'd gotten over doing that years ago but yet I still can't help doing it. It makes me angry with myself.
Also my mind can't help but repeat all the times in my life I was told I was a loser, or would fail at this or that. I always wanted those people to be wrong but nope, they had me accurately pegged long before I woke up and realized the truth about myself and what they saw and I didn't.
It stings too when I see the people *I* thought were bigger screwups and just as loser-y as me now happily married and successful and even having earned PhDs. Out of the core group of people I knew growing up, ***I*** turned out to be The Biggest Loser.