How do you feel about your birthday

  • I dread it

    Votes: 24 37.5%
  • It's okay

    Votes: 8 12.5%
  • It's complicated

    Votes: 8 12.5%
  • Just another day

    Votes: 21 32.8%
  • Yay! Birthday!

    Votes: 2 3.1%
  • I like presents...

    Votes: 1 1.6%

  • Total voters
    64
Fthis

Fthis

Student
Dec 8, 2020
192
So... My birthday is tommorow anymore I hate my birthday because I hate life and it's a reminder of how long I've been stuck on this planet. How do you guys feel about your birthday?
 
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killedbypsychiatry

killedbypsychiatry

drugging kids is abuse
Jan 27, 2021
797
I've never liked my birthday... cake is the only positive lol. But now I see it as a year closer to going back to the void

btw hope you have a nice day tomorrow
 
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suicide4me

Student
Apr 1, 2021
104
I hate my birthday, it's the worst day of my life. I wish I'd never been born. Luckily, I won't ever be having another birthday because I'm going to ctb prior to my next one
 
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whywere

Visionary
Jun 26, 2020
2,888
1st off HAPPY BIRTHDAY to a GREAT global family member. I hope at least it is a sunny warm day for you. My birthday wish to you is a sunny, warm day and you can do whatever you want for the day. 2nd, birthday's for me before this year stink big time, no family or friends. BUT this year everyone here made my day so, so much better and made me happy. 1st time for me in over 55 years, yep I am old, that I felt love and it was WONDERFUL! THANK YOU to everyone here for the birthday wishes, made me cry with happiness. NOW I am sending you @Fthis all my love and support for a happy birthday. You are a great global family member and I just want to try and uplift your spirits and hopefuly put a smile in your heart. Walter :happy::hug:
 
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WornOutLife

マット
Mar 22, 2020
7,164
It's complicated.

On the one hand, I like my b-days because I always receive some presents at least from my parents and brother and also I buy a popular yummy cake called "chocotorta". (Chocolate cake)

On the other hand, I don't want anymore b-days because they just remind me that I'm getting older and life will only become harder to deal with.
I'm already 33. I can't imagine turning 34. If I manage to do it, I will certainly quote this comment next January haha.

EDIT: I almost forgot. In case I don't see you around tomorrow: HAPPY B-DAY!! I hope you have a great day!
 
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A Desperate Fool

A Desperate Fool

at the End of His Pitiful Rope
Jan 23, 2021
55
Hope you have a nice birthday.

I dread mine. My (soon-to-be-ex) wife got really aggressive toward me once for feeling down on my birthday. She screamed "if you won't enjoy your birthday, then I will," and slammed the door and left while I was hunched in front of the dryer, in disbelief, crying. But then she came back and apologized and took me to Red Lobster. I prefer that to being completely ghosted by her this year. I don't think I'm going to stick around long enough to find out what hell awaits me on my next birthday.
 
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babybrie

babybrie

Member
Mar 11, 2021
16
Whenever I think of my birthday I think of my parents and all the hopes and dreams they had for me when I was born. Now my life is fucked beyond repair and my birthday just feels sad
 
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GenesAndEnvironment

GenesAndEnvironment

Autistic loser
Jan 26, 2021
5,739
I should decide on a date and year in case I don't kill myself "iMpUlSIvELy" so that I can celebrate my death day several times before ctb.

Birthdays on the other hand, that's like celebrating the day you got beaten up or something.
 
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hahabye

hahabye

always say never
Sep 14, 2019
314
It is my least favourite day of the year. I feel the worst on my birthdays since forever. That's why I think it will be a perfect date for ctb.
 
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Carrotcake

Carrotcake

Experienced
Nov 27, 2019
265
I hope you're having an ok day tomorrow!

For me, my birthday is just a reminder of another year of suffering. As nothing ever changes. It is a good excuse to eat some fancy cake though.
 
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sadbadpsychogirl

sadbadpsychogirl

sonofabitch
May 29, 2020
725
ugh i hate it. my b day is in late july and i have been starving myself for almost 2 weeks now. i am determined to go before then although i don't know how likely that will be i have just over 3 months to do this and i just hope it works in time.
 
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Breakout92

Breakout92

Student
Mar 10, 2021
107
I've always hated it. I share the same birthday as my dad. I wished i could have had my own day instead.

Nowadays it's just another boring day. We haven't really celebrated it anymore for the past couple of years, maybe I would bake a cake and share it with the family but that's it.
 
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lofticries

lofticries

obedear
Feb 27, 2021
1,470
I dread it. I hate getting older but it is what it is. My parents take me out to eat which I appreciate but honestly I don't think my birth should be celebrated.
 
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UterEntonaur

UterEntonaur

Specialist
Aug 17, 2020
340
How do you guys feel about your birthday?
I dread it... my birthday with family means saying "happy birthday" once and then continuing the day just like any other.

It's pointless other than to remind me how my life has been wasted and continues to slip away - due to the choices that my mother made just to benefit her - whilst having a total disregard for my life/future/prospects whatsoever.
 
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UseItOrLoseIt

UseItOrLoseIt

1O'8
Dec 4, 2020
2,217
Last two birthdays I deactivated my FB account for a few days so nobody could congratulate me. That should tell you enough :haha:
 
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Sprite_Geist

Sprite_Geist

NULL
May 27, 2020
1,586
Absolutely despise it.
 
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death137

death137

miserable
Jun 25, 2020
1,166
I hate it. I haven't celebrated it for many years. I hate aging. I turned 24 last month and its sad that I'm still alive.
ugh i hate it. my b day is in late july and i have been starving myself for almost 2 weeks now. i am determined to go before then although i don't know how likely that will be i have just over 3 months to do this and i just hope it works in time.
Have you completely stopped eating?
 
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ExhaustedExistence

ExhaustedExistence

Life is just waiting for death
Mar 26, 2021
693
When I was younger I liked my birthdays, because I didn't think about the age too much and I just looked forward to presents.

Now I don't like them at all. I really hate getting older. I don't enjoy the presents anymore, because nobody can give me what I really want. I have birthday in this month too and I'm going to be 20. I wish I could ctb before that.
 
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NekoNomNom

NekoNomNom

There is no right to heal the wrong
May 3, 2020
248
Unfortunately I missed my window to join the 27 Club :')
 
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loopylou

Learn to fly
Jan 11, 2021
884
I ignore it.
 
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Some1's_Wasted_Fetus

Student
Mar 20, 2021
174
Constant reminder of the day I was forcefully brought into this world with no choice whatsoever. I dread it. If I knew what my life would become in the next 20 years after birth I would've wrapped the umbilical cord around my neck and ctb'd in uterus
 
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GarageKarate07

GarageKarate07

Wizard
Aug 18, 2020
665
I've never liked my birthday... cake is the only positive lol. But now I see it as a year closer to going back to the void

btw hope you have a nice day tomorrow
Now I want cake....
 
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WhatDoesTheFoxSay?

WhatDoesTheFoxSay?

Hold your head high, and your middle finger higher
Dec 25, 2020
1,112
I ignore it.
My intention was to forgo celebrating mine this year. Unfortunately, despite my insistence my Dad (a textbook narcissist) went ahead with it, just so that he could upload some photos on social media.
 
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A Desperate Fool

A Desperate Fool

at the End of His Pitiful Rope
Jan 23, 2021
55
Unfortunately I missed my window to join the 27 Club :')
Me too. I had dreamed about it when I was younger, but when I was 27, I was naive and in love. I didn't know my wife was a cheater at the time or I might've.
 
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Bigpink

Warlock
Oct 12, 2020
705
They used to mean something when I had family and friends, now just another day, with added bitterness and resentment, yay!
 
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